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Monday, November 16

Let's start at the very beginning


And now we have a motive too … ISIS felt that Parisians had to die because “that city is a place of infidels and prostitution”, but probably more because of its "crusade" against them.

Of course it didn’t mention the captured women that ISIS regularly sells or the children they feed to its leaders. You don’t need more details – it is sordid, but I do wonder why they don’t sort out their backyard mess before sorting out everyone else’s?

However, it’s not limited to them. Although long-forgotten, Catholicism was as pernicious in the dark ages. Other groups around the world are as intolerant and brutal.


I have witnessed more subtle expressions of it. Legalism and the view that it is a God-given prerogative to change others has haunted my own life in many ways, not just in terms of the legalistic circles I once moved in, but also through people I met along the way.

Of course, the worst offender was myself. In more recent years that shifted, but even so I was recently faced with an offense that I agonized over until I finally resolved that my role is not to change the offender, but to love first.

It is part of a personal revolution in which I have shifted, somewhat agonizingly, from a toxic mind that was full of negative thoughts, to a liberated mind that is finding freedom in reflecting on the good all around me: as in Galatians 4:8’s, “Whatsoever is pure, true, lovely, noble and of good report - think on such things”.

The fact is, “as a man thinks so is he” (Proverbs 23:7). Its allied to another principle, “a little leaven leavens the whole lump”, which is well expressed in an African proverb, “a fish rots from the head”.

What I mean by all that, is that if our minds are toxic, our bodies will be sickly, short of energy, wasted away, worn out and inclined to age faster.

However, toxicity here refers to much more than a critical mind. Worry, fear, fretting, trying to work it all out, introspection – it all adds up to a toxic spill.

In Romans 7, Paul speaks of us being freed from the law of condemnation, the way the death of a spouse freed a woman from any further obligation to him under the same law.

Thus, being dead in Christ, we are no longer defined by a written law of edicts and commands, of do’s and don’ts, and so on. The law never set out to modify our behavior (as a friend observed), it came to reveal our wretchedness and offer a way out.

Therefor Paul continues with, “but I am alive in Christ”. Now I no longer serve the law, for the law of condemnation was replaced by another law, “the law of spirit of life”. It’s more like the law of gravity: not a written precept, more a principle rooted in what Jesus did for us.

The Puritans who arrived in Boston were an incredibly legalistic, ultra-conservative right wing of the English church, when the new world was being colonized. Their faith hid behind insular palisades, separated from the contamination of the world.

The dissenters to the left were Quakers, who had no physical palisades, but used a principle, like the above, to virtually bound the state of Pennsylvania. They used a ground rule or constitution, to define how to belong, not what didn’t.

Paul continues his own monologue by saying, “O wretched man, who will save me from myself, for what I want to do I don’t, and what I don’t I do.”

He exalts in the solution, “I thank God through Christ my Lord, for the law of the spirit of life has freed me from the law of sin and death”. 

What he meant was that instead of being told what not to do and all that was so wrong about his life, the rise of that spiritual life, in him, freed him to live a new way.

So now you know why I think that using any means, be it words or bombs, to change others, is wrong. Let the change start within us. As Mahatma Gandhi so rightfully said, “Be the change you want to see in others”.

I love that. Such a spiritually enlightened idea. “Be” the change. In Christ “I am” a new creation and in so being I better the world around me. Let your life be the letter of Christ, written in your heart for all to read (2 Cor 3). 

All that the ISIS approach will do is what dogmatism has always done – it will make matters worse, breed cynicism, drive people apart and worsen our world. If they were inspired by God at all, they would know that love is the only path to victory.

My joy is that the process of restoring our lives in Christ, starts at the cross as a peace-offering, with all the forgiveness and mercy that goes with that. It doesn’t start with condemnation and feeling worse, but with reconciliation and hope.


He taught us that love and acceptance changes lives, for love covers a multitude of sins, mercy heaps coals on our enemies, and compassion glorifies God more than religion ever did.

(c) Peter Missing: bethelstone@gmail.com

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